What is happening to us? What is it that I'm doing wrong? I'm trying to stop whatever I can that causes us to fight. But why won't you let me? Saying things like you're doing most of the changes and one more wont hurt makes me feel like I'm not giving a shit with our relationship. It hurts me even more that I'm trying to stop the cause of our fight and you're not even letting me do so. I am at a lost. I really dont know what to do anymore.