Tick Tock

Saturday, April 30, 2011

Life .

Life can be described in so many words. Fun. Boring. Lively. Dull. Exciting. Mysterious. Secretive. Quiet. Lonely. Problematic. Miserable. Happy. etc. We choose what we want. Good or bad. Positive or negative. We decide it for ourselves.

But sometimes, we choose to be stubborn and stick to what we think is right. Sometimes we choose to do something only we think is funny. Sometimes we choose to just go with the flow. But, by doing so , we can hurt someone's feelings and not even realise it. By the time someone else tells us about it or we finally figured it out, it'll be too late to mend a friend's broken heart which may lead to us having one good friend lost forever. If we're lucky, that person may choose to forgive and forget but our relationship won't be as close and fun as before.

Think before we act. Think of all the possible conseqeunces and effects. Decide whether it is worth it. Look at it from a different angle. A bigger picture. Because if we don't, we may do something we might just regret in the future.

Learn from mistakes and remember to not repeat it again.

Now that it has passed me by, I've realised my mistake. I didn't think things through before agreeing to do so. Yes, it was to help my best friend. But the outcome of it. Is not pretty at all. I have caused someone's feelings to be hurt. And though that person says that it is fine. Things are just not the same anymore. I now realise how important that person was to me. But its too late now. I can't turn back the time and undo what i've done. Lost a good and important friend but what can i do but to learn to live with it.